Claim Responsibility for Your Own Happiness

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

Do you want a happy and fulfilling life?  Most of us do, but many of us don't know how to get it.  Deep down many people don't realize that they have the power to create their happy life.  They think that they are the victims of fate or destiny: that bad luck just knows how to find them.  Guess what?  They're right.  Not because it's true, but believe they believe it's true. If you think that Happiness will forever avoid you then it will


 That's the reality that you are bringing into your life.  If you want to make a change, then start with yourself.  I know how corny that sounds, but bear with me. If you believe that you were destined to be poor, then you will be letting opportunity pass you by.  Those who believe that they are worthy of Happiness, and who have made the decision to be happy, will have those opportunities come knocking on their door. If you see a beautiful red sports car and think "I'll never have one of those" then the Universe will give you exactly what you believe: The experience of never having a red sports car!  If you don't believe you can have it, then you won't think about having it, owning it, driving it.  You won't come up with ideas on how to attain it.  You will just stare at it with resentment and your thoughts about it will confirm your reality.  If you want to stay like this, then have fun riding the bus.  


If, however, you realize that YOU are powerful and creative, then take responsibility for your thoughts and see yourself behind the wheel of that car.  Feel the wind in your hair.  Believe it can be yours.  Take the wheel and steer your thoughts in the right direction. Godspeed.

Take Control of Your Thoughts for a Happier Life

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

You have the power to create the life of your dreams.  You have the power to train your thoughts to bring all your desires to you.  Remember always, that what you think about is what you live about.  Your thoughts are powerful messages being sent out to a Universe that loves you.  This Universe is more than happy to send you all those dreams you wish would come true.  However, The Law of Attraction is set up so that the Universe can only bring you that which you think of.  The Universe is on your side, always! The Universe feels your pain, your joy, your sorrow, your regret, your happiness, just as you do.  It only makes sense that it wishes to experience more joy and happiness, just as you do.

The Universe wants to be happy, but in order for this to be so, You must be Happy.  Send Happy thoughts out to the Universe on a regular basis.  Do it with purpose, on purpose.  Train your brain.  Control your thoughts.  Reach for that better feeling.  See the humour in any situation.  Feel the love.  Choose the better feeling emotion.  You always have a choice on how to react to events and people in your life.  Choose reactions and emotions which serve you and raise your vibrations to a higher level.  Take responsibility for your emotions and reactions and thoughts. It is a cop-out to say that you can't help how you feel, or that you can't help what you think.  You're just being lazy!  Give yourself more credit and more power.  You will always be in control.  You can always bring joy into your life.  You can always be Happy.  Realize this, and choose it for yourself.  I promise you'll thank me for it.

Happiness is Your Birthright

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

If you think that you don't deserve to be happy then you never will.  However, if you think that Happiness is your birthright, as it is, then you will be happy.  Happiness comes from knowing that life was meant to be joyful, loving, fun, exciting, serene, calm and peaceful.  Happiness comes to those who call it forth, to those who choose it.  Are you choosing Happiness for yourself? If not, then I have to ask, why on earth or heaven or anywhere else in this grand universe, not? You were born to be happy.  You were not born to struggle or to hate or to hurt.  Take a few moments as you read this.  Find your Happiness.  Dwell on that which puts a smile on a face.  Find something.  Anything.  Now think about it.  And smile.  You deserve it.

Think Your Dreams Into Being

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

The only way to have your dreams come true is to think about them, constantly.  Be addicted to thinking about your goals and dreams.  Be really, really greedy about spending time doing this.  You get to do this.  This is allowed.  How else do you expect those dreams to be fulfilled?  This is the work you have to put in.  This is your job.  Think and think and think and think about what you want.  Believe it in and think about how you believe in it.  Be obsessive about it.  Spend time alone so that you can devote yourself to this. Your dreams are as close to fruition as you allow them to be.  Your thoughts are the only thing stopping them from coming true.  Now that you know that you are the only possible obstacle to your dreams coming true, are you going to get out of your way?

Your First Instinct

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

All you have to do today is think one happy thought and hold that thought for a few minutes.  Go on, give it a try.  Daydream for a few minutes.  Think of something that puts a smile on your face. Think of something that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.  Think of a memory or a time in your life when you were blissfully happy.  We all have those moments.  Dig for it.  Remember it and feel it again.  Dwell on it for a few minutes. Do the same thing tomorrow except spend a little more time doing it.  Build up every day the amount of time you spend doing this.  Little by little it will become second nature.  That's a bit funny, actually, because it's your first instinct to do this!  You had it before you were born, and you knew it.  Now it's your job to remember it.

Dwell on Positives

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

The way you feel is as important as what you think about.  Your emotions will take you to many happy places if you let them.  You thoughts will transport those emotions and make sure they get you to your destination.  Search for thoughts that make you happy.  Just do it.  Take the time to spend on yourself.  Are you not worth it?  Answer your own questions and quiet your mind.  All the answers are there, if you listen for them.  Quite a lot of time is spent dwelling on negatives.  Buck the trend.  Be a pioneer.  Dwell on positives.  And watch your emotions soar.  When that happens, watch for good things to happen, for they will.

Thinking of that which makes you happy.

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

These things called thoughts are just that: things.  They are real. As real as you are sitting there right now reading this.  So, your thoughts are real. What now?  Tend to them.  Keep them positive.  Try to think about something that makes your heart glow.  Is it a person, or place, or memory?  Anything that puts a smile on your face.  Think of it now.  And feel the smile grow.  Doesn't that feel better?

The beginning of all this

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

Quite a long time ago, the universe got itself together and decided to create a world of relativity.  That world is here and now. The way to navigate it is to understand the laws that govern it.  This site is devoted to the Law of Attraction.  That which you think about, becomes your reality.  The universe gives you what you spend your time thinking about.  So, then, why not think good thoughts?  They will give you a much better life than negative thoughts.  Is it really that much of a chore to make yourself happy?  It doesn't need to be, and if you think it does, then it will be.  So think again my friend.

Be Happy

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

All you have to do is be happy.  Is that really so hard?  All that it takes is a little determination and a little willpower.  Start off every day by thinking about someone or something that makes you happy.  Maybe it's a joke, maybe it's a funny movie, maybe it's a person.  But think about it.  Get yourself in a good mood.  It is so worth it, you will be amazed, and you will believe your eyes!

These things that people worry about....

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

These things that people worry about...they are causing their own downfall through worry.  Thought precedes reality.  Attract to yourself that which makes you happy. HAPPINESS is all that you need to be to get all that you want.  Remember this: Thoughts are real vibrations.  The universe receives them and replies in kind.  Your desires are there for you, waiting for you.  The universe loves you and wants you to be well, but cannot help but return to you that which you are thinking of.  Don't blame i, for it cannot help itself.  That is Law.  Retinker your own thoughts.  Watch the results.  Be amazed.  Go on, I dare you.

Thoughts are Things

by Anne Bellamy, Author of Using The Law of Attraction to Help The Universe Help You

Thoughts are things.  Treat them with the same respect you treat your possessions.  The more you care for them, the more you will reap the benefits of them.  Your thoughts matter.  They are the life and breath of your experience.  Do not neglect them.  They fulfill your dreams and desires.  They bring changes into your life.  Make sure the changes are positive ones.  Live your dreams, not your nightmares.  Tend to your thoughts.