Saturday, 27 April 2013

Why The Law of Attraction Isn't Working For You and How To Fix It

Do you ever find yourself in a law of attraction conundrum?  In other words, do you want to believe, and does it make total sense to you, yet at the same time you're looking around at your surroundings and saying "where's all that money I keep visualizing?  Where's the mansion I want to live in?  Where's that hot boy/girlfriend I keep dreaming about?"

Most people get impatient when they are "doing the work" but not getting the results, which in turn, makes you doubt the work, and suddenly you've dug yourself a hole and find yourself looking up shouting in frustration "WHERE'S MY STUFF???"""

It becomes a vicious circle which is hard to break free from.

When you find yourself living in frustration, but still wanting to believe in the law of attraction then there's still hope.  You need to look at how you are feeling.  I mean really get honest with your feelings on certain subject.  When you wish for more money are you truly feeling good about that wish?  Does it make your heart sing?  Or does it remind you of you lack of money?  When you're wishing for the perfect mate does it make you feel good, or does it make you feel lonely?  These are the questions that you have to ask yourself.

It sounds simple:  Does it make me feel good or not?  But often we sabotage ourselves by ignoring the emotions that go along with the visualization.  You may think you want a certain thing, but your emotions are telling you that you are focused on the absence of that thing.  This is why so many people get frustrated with the law of attraction and sometimes throw in the towel.

Pay attention to how you feel.  If a certain subject makes you feel bad, then stay away from that subject.  For many people that subject is money.  If money makes you feel bad, then stop trying to visualize yourself with more.  You'll only be emphasizing the absence of it, and in the process shoot yourself in the foot.

As Abraham says, go general.  Think about something that isn't so touchy.  Look out into your garden and appreciate the beautiful flowers in it.  Turn on a piece of music you love and dance your ass off.  Read a fascinating book.  Distract yourself from that which makes you feel bad.  Get your mood lifted and raise the vibrations you are emitting.  Feel good!  It doesn't matter what the subject is.  Real basic rule coming up:  If it feels good, if it puts a smile on your face and makes your heart sing, DO IT!  THINK IT!  FOCUS ON IT! DWELL ON IT!  SWIM IN IT!  Sorry for shouting, but sometimes it's the only way to get heard.